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From:Paudr'e C

To:Me

Date:Wednesday, September 15, 2010 5:44:33 PM

Subject:Because you know what pain ...

Your defense is up my sister and it's ok, I don't just read I study as it is written( Study to show thy self approved ). I don't hate you and if you remember I asked a question on how could you be gay when it is written that God is against homesexual behaviour, that in these times man will turn to man and woman to woman. If I had not read it then there would be nothing for me to discuss right? It seems that you are not willing to study this and it's ok but know this just because it's called a church on the outside doesn't make it a church because Satan is also in the building and he has angeles too. Do you expect the one who will decieve you to be with horns so you see him coming? I'm not trying to change who you are that's between you and God I just questioned you being Gay and I was simply sharing if you read our communication then you would see this.



From:Paudr'e C

To:Me

Date:Wednesday, September 15, 2010 5:48:20 PM

Subject:Because you know what pain ...

It is true we are created in His image and it is also true that God said let us create MAN & let us create Woman for Man so that THEY MAY BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY, but you seemed to have left this out of your communicating with me. I guess you think I just picked you out and decided it to pick on you NO not at all my sister. You say created in love well I tell you what Study Galatans 5 and you will have what the spirit of God is then feel free to respond my sister.



From:Paudr'e C

To:Me

Date:Wednesday, September 15, 2010 5:57:02 PM

Subject:Always with love my sister ...

Always with love my sister and I'm just sharing truth with you we learned in the same USA however as a people 100% of what we learned is a Learmed Behaviour since the ending of slavery and not before. As a people we were kings and queens although you say we are a cursed people now another subject but when you study galatians 5 no matter what has been done in the past we are free so unless you can share with me this information proving that it effects us in the present then please allow me to share with you were you may study YOUR BIBLE and gather the truth from Old to New Testaments.



Category:Aliya Leigh Live - Podcast -- posted at: 7:34pm EST
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I know for a fact that I want a family with my fiance Amanda. I’m sure a lot of Lesbian and Gay couples feel the same way. But lately I’ve been thinking about it more and more because 3 of my closest friends are pregnant – all of which are Heterosexual, and have the luxury of being able to create something beautiful that is a union of their own genes – asbolutely free. (Well the creation is).. Unfortunately that isn’t the case for the couples in the LGBTQ community. Unfortunately, we weren’t made to procreate between eachother. This is one of the main reasons why religions are against us. As they believe that the purpose of our sex organs is to solely be used to bring life. So for a union of the same sex is un-exceptional because its just not normal. A friend of mine, who is also in a Lesbian relationship said to me “We are basically fucked” and she couldn’t be more right. Being that we have the need to be parents and create a LOVING family, because after-all we are human beings. We can’t just do that – with out stating the obvious.



So now we are stuck with several choices. A: Adopt.



Honestly, the whole adoption process is a big hassel, especially when you are a Lesbian couple. Although NYS allows LGBT couples to adopt children. The bright side is you are taking a child out of the states grasps, and providing them a nourishing enviornment of love that they wouldn’t have otherwise if they remained in the state.

B: Sperm Donor, One of us carries.

Awesome concept. We are able to have the baby grow inside one of us. We are able to have all rights connected to us with no connection to the “Sperm Donor” at all. We are able to choose the babies ethincity, physical attributes, genetics etc. The downside is that the baby will not have one partners genes.

C: Partner Assisted Reproduction

This is hands down the best option out there.. Basically what happens is that one partner provides the egg, which is fertilized outside the body and then implanted into the other partner’s body. She carries the baby to term and gives birth. An egg is extracted from the egg donor mom and fertilized with sperm from a sperm donor in vitro (outside the body) and then implanted into the woman carrying the child. Usually more than one egg is implanted so the likelihood of multiple births is much greater.This procedure is much more expensive than simple donor insemination, but some women may opt for this because both women will have a biological tie to the child.

I am pretty sure option C would be picked by most of my friends, and I’m sure you guys would agree to this procedure. How ever the overall cost is astronomical. I feel that this shouldn’t be as expensive as it is. From what I’ve seen its close to 15,000. Which is crazy to me. Its kind of like a slap in the face. Because theres all these free clinics paid by the government to assist those who are uninsured and pregnant. Some of these women have 4 kids and pregnant again. But they get all these things free from the government. Which is fine, their taxes pay for it if they are working class citzens but just can’t afford the insurance that their job may provide therefore their taxes and our taxes is going for a good cause. Then you have the community who chooses not to work, but keeps procreating children with out a father or stable income. They keep receiving free food stamps, wic and assistance. Then you have the LGBTQ community, which I’m sure there are many classes within that are not working. But those who do work, where is our taxes going for our needs as a Americans living as we wish? What taxes help the forgotten ones? I’m not asking for a free ride, I’m just asking for something within’ means to get. So that I may create a family with my fiance. Where we can raise kids that are statiscally better behaved then those who have heterosexual parents.



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Category:Aliya Leigh Live - Podcast -- posted at: 10:22am EST
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