Hit The Road, Jackie. Respect THY SELF!

Feeling well, today.  Actually, great.  

To have a great relationship, both parties need to:

1) RESPECT!
2) NO ABUSE!!!
3) NO CHEATING!

This is important to remember and to understand, but sooo hard to do! 

See, we as humans are not happy all the time, we have emotions.  So we can be angry, sad, depress, happy or sexual. If you follow me on twitter, you have witness all of my emotions. 

To me, when my partner follows the three rules, I feel safe and secure to be around them. I know there will be no judging, hitting, abuse and no STDs.

What does respect means (from http://www.m-w.com):

A relation or reference to a particular thing or situation <remarks having respect to an earlier plan>
2 : an act of giving particular attention : consideration
3 a : high or special regard : esteem b : the quality or state of being esteemed c plural : expressions of respect or deference <paid our respects>
4 : particular, detail <a good plan in some respects>

So, respect is having a high regard for your partner or date. When both parties have respect for one another, then you have open communcation, trust, love, honor and security.  Everyone from the big hairy guy, little guy, fairy, drag queen, drag king, butch, femme, straight women, straight men, trans and bi's want to be respected and secure. 

It takes both parties to respect each other; which can build or destroy a relationship.

For example, the girl who I was speaking to told me, "The best good looking black girls are in Altana, Georgia." Now, she's try to dating me and she told me that.  How would you feel, if a person YOU were dating or YOUR partner told you this statement?

You'll feel hurt because now you see they don't see as good looking as the girls in Altana, Georgia.

Another example, my ex-love Sharon told me, "I love working out at the Scottsdale gym because I see good looking women." Again, she didn't see me in high regard. 

After Sharon, I told myself, the next time I fall in love with person, they need to respect me.  I won't take anything less.  Another example, my sugra momma, always told me, "Hi, beautiful. You're so beautiful."  See, that's respect and I respect her the same way, but we saw the future in different eyes, but this is proof, you can have respect in a relationship, even if, it's a booty call. 

So, please respect yourself and your date or partner because it does wonders in the bedroom.

Also with respect, if your partner goes to a strip club, you don't have to worry.  If your partner goes on a long trip, you don't have to worry. If your partner, see a person who looks good, you don't have to worry. Respect, will always allow you to keep a sound mind and a joyful heart.


Tomorrow, I'll talk about NO ABUSE!!!!!

I did speak to the girl today, it didn't end good.  See, I got two free passes to see "Fame".  "Fame" (the series), impacted a big part of my life because it went into detail about living life for a dream, so I wanted to go.  I asked the girl to if she wanted to go, but she was busy. Ok, no problem.  So I took my cousin.  Her husband is a Army Officer, who's station in Iraq. 

Today, I spoke to the girl and she was upset with me because she couldn't go. I had to tell her, it wasn't a big deal and I took someone else and I didn't have time to tell her, it was my cousin. 

The confusing part is, we are NOT together.  I have tried to see her and do activities with her, but she wants to be with her friends.  I don't care, if she wants to hang out with her friends; I just want to know her more.  So, I put in the effort to arrange dates, but no show.  What else, can a girl do? 

I did text her because, seriously, I don't think she was mad at me, she was mad at something else. 

If she doesn't want to talk me, fine. I just want her to find the right partner for her because no one should ever be alone.

I may go the Mercury game tomorrow night.  If you see me, say "Hi". 

Love you guys and remember, respect yourself and others.

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