The Gay World

I'M GAY!!!!!

Most of our straight friends and family, wished they never heard those words.  But, it happens. 

I was at the home office today, because I was sick.  You know when you walk to your kitchen from your bedroom and you don't know how you got there? 

I was watching the Tara Banks show and they're going to have show tomorrow about how to cure gay people.  But, do we need to be cured? Why are we gay?  And is something wrong with us? 

These are good questions and they have great answers.  Gay people were born gay.  I can prove it.  My father's sister and my first cousins are gay, plus my mother admitted she thought about being gay when she was younger.  So, there's a gay gene.  But, unfortunately, people who are not part of the GLBT community look down on us, if we were freaks of the year; which is not cool. 

I knew I was gay for a long time and I didn't want to admitted because of family and religion, but when I came clean to myself, then I became a whole people. 

It's funny, when you're in the closet, you feel so confined as if you're in a prison cell.  When you except yourself as you are, then you feel a release of mind, body and soul. 

One thing, I can't stand is people putting God into hating something or someone.  If God talked to us on earth, we will be shocked to hear, "I love everyone."  It's Godlike to tell someone, "God Hates YOU!!!", when you're not being Godlike yourself?

The bottom line is, YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT YOURSELF.

Without accepting yourself as whatever you are,  you're not doing yourself justice. 

When I was at the end of grade and Jr.High, I didn't love myself.  I tried to kill myself several times because I knew I was different and God didn't want me to be different. I figure, if I ended my life, I will no longer embarrass my family. But, acceptance helped me to heal and love myself. 
Unfortunately, society had brain damaged us to think a certain way, instead of thinking for ourselves. 

If you are gay and you don't want have relationship with the same sex, that's fine, but accept the fact, you are gay.   Some people refuse to have sex or a relationship with the same sex because of religion and/or family.   There's a lot of people doing this and they are STILL HAPPY.

For me, you know where I stand.  I love being with a person of my own sex. 

I wish the world was different, but everyone has opinions. Opinions is what makes this country great, but we need to respect each other for their differences; which makes life great.

People may hate, love and just deal with us, but the main thing is to respect each other with love and understanding.  It sounds simple, but it's difficult to do, when our own egos get in the way. 

When I first met Nitara, the film director, she was married to a man and had a son. When I first shook her hand, I knew she was gay.  She was so deep into the closet, she was like those old clothes you saved, but couldn't wear  in years.   She looked confined and so confused, like a lost child in a mega mall.  I felt sorry for her and her husband.  And yes, I did speak to the husband, but never told him, "Your wife is gay." 

A year later, I saw her at a gay club.  She's out of the closet and so happy.  Her creativity is much stronger then ever, she is more open and less stress.  Because she accepted herself, she became a whole person. 

But, sadly some decides they need to kill themselves to be happy.  It's not true.  If you believe killing yourself is the answer, please get help. 

Remember, "God loves everyone and you are special to him or her because YOU are a gift from God."



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