When your new love meet your friends, this in the most critical time in a new relationship. It telling your new love, you want to graduate to the next level in your relationship because your circle of friends is so important to you. Why? Because you can you let loose with them without judgment.
In a new relationship, we tend to put on an academy award winning performance for your new love because of our need to impress. We need to say and do the right things in the relationship that we tend to create a character, who is the opposite of our real self. It's like you are confined in a small box and you locked it. For example, I was watching South Park and people were exploding because they didn't want to break wind in their date, so the mayor made farting fashionable; even though farting is a normal human function. We just tend not let your new love see the best of us and hid the worst of us.
So when should the new love meet your friends? I don't know. To me, it's an important step because that's when the worlds unite into one world. It's like saying, "I am so serious about this person that she/he is the most important person in my life". It's like co-living with the new love because the new love is weaving deeper into your life. They are now invited to see the true you around your friends and to see what you and your friends are all about.
So date tend to judge the person who you are dating based on friends because they believe, "Birds of a feather flock together." So when you let the new love meet your friends, it should not be taken lightly.
The girl, who I'm dating now was planning to meet my friends at The Cash on Saturday night. Seriously, I didn't want her meet them because I'm not ready to have the two worlds unite. I feel when she meets my friends, she is part of my life and I'm force to commit to a person who I'm not sure about.
See, let me explain. If I let the new girl meet my friends, then they become her friends; she's in my circle of friends. She will know all my secrets, desires and see my wild side up close. Plus, if we break up, I still have to see her because she's in my circle of friends.
Now, do you see how important the meeting of friends is. It's an important step in a relationship, so don't take it lightly. If he or she likes your friends, who you nothing to worry about because your are full stream ahead into a long term relationship.
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