How should I act on a date?

Loveology

By Aliya Leigh

How should I act on a date?

How do you want the date to end, is the real question. Now, the date depends on you, not your friends, family or a magazine because they are not you. I can't stand how people judge me about be dating. For example, some people just want the booty call, while others are looking for that special someone. So, before you go the first date with someone new, you need to ask yourself, "How do I want the date to end?”

You can end the date in different ways, for example, “the hook up”, “just friends”, “no way”, “booty call” and “you're so special, I like you”.

The hook up date, is my favorite and specialty date. It has my name all over it. So, what is “the hook up” date? It's a date where you just want to have sex after a dinner or any type of function. The mistake people have with “the hook up”, is that after the hook up, you have a relationship; which is not true. Sometimes, the hook up doesn't turn into a long lasting relationship. On a hook up date, you prepare yourself and your body, meaning you know you look hot and you feel hot to the point that everyone will stare at you and wish you were with them. During the date, you feel the mood. Think with your gut not your head. If the date is going well, then you have nothing to worry about, just be yourself. When you start making out in the car, you know it's on. Now, at this point you can control the situation. You can just make out or go all the way, but you need to remember, you may not have a second date and to always have protection.

The just friends date, is OK. I had a few myself. It's a date you or the other person want to establish a date, but at the end you become friends. Again, you need to trust your gut and to give hints to see what direction the date is going. When you became friends it's cool because more friends and more people to talk too, plus sometimes friends become lovers. So, if the date turns into friends, don't worry about it. There are millions of fish in the sea.

The no way date, is easy to spot. During the date, if the person you are with or you yourself starts talking on the phone with a friend or texting, then this is a no way date, meaning that basically you are just wasting time and money on something you don't care about. When it is a no way date, just end it. You can be the ass or let the other person be the ass. For example, I was on a date and the person was just texting friends while we were eating. When you know, it's a no way date, just end it and throw away the number because wasting time is not good. Now, if you just want the date to be a booty call, then talk about it and if each party agrees to the terms; during sex DON'T TALK, JUST DO.

The booty call date is easy. If each party agrees to the terms then just have fun. Just be safe and stick with the terms. With a booty call, don't let feelings get into the way because it's just physical relationship. When emotions get involve, talk to the other person and let the relationship go, if you can't handle it anymore. It's better to leave then to stay in a relationship and the other party doesn't feel the same way.

The you're so special date is the best. So I save the best for last. It's a date when the two parties feel a connection to point they can say, “I want you”, meaning you two belong with each other. Sometimes the relationship will blossom in the moment you meet or at the end of the date. Remember to trust your gut. You will know, when the right person comes along. Romance novels ideas come from real life relationships, so your love story will happen, just be patience and keep your options open.

Dating is dating. How you act on the date is your business, not your friends or a magazine. I hate it when people base your lives for a romance novels, movies and their own friends. Novels and movies are loosely based on real life. Your friends may seem happy when you see them, but you don't know the drama in their house. So base your love life on yourself and gut. Remember, cause and effect. What you cause has an effect, so whatever you put out into the universes will come back to you.

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