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I have been dealing with my sexuality all of my life, since I came from an
ultra-religious family.

In my present life, I have come to terms that I am a lesbian and
I proud to be who I am. As a woman told me, I am a Professional Lesbian.

Most of my life, I have tried to hide the fact of who I am. Since I came
out of the closet, my life has been enriched with friends, lovers,
self-worth, self-esteem and love for my neighbors. I love being who
I am and proud of it. I always wonder if straight people are proud
to be straight. Who knows? I should ask a straight person. I wonder
what they will say.

Homosexuality is the person, but unfortunately people only think
of the act or the bedroom scene, so funny, because you don’t need
a bedroom to have sex.

For me, I had sex:

* In front of a crowd
* In a pool at a friend’s house
* In the bedroom of my house
* In a movie theatre room of a person’s house
* In the movie theatre
* In a hot tub
* In a car (A Honda FIT) (if you’re fan of my podcast, you will know this)
* In a office
* Online
* In a club’s bathroom (Most of my one-night stands)
* In a parking lot
* Outside

See, the GLBT community is just like the straight community.
THE ONLY DIFFERNCE IS: we love the same sex.

That's it!! So why is a concern for most people? I don’t get it.
But, some comments can be hurtful.

For example, on twitter, a guy told me, that if he raped me,
I can be straight. WHAT? So getting raped by a straight man will
cure my gayness? So killing a gay man will cure his gayness?
And now, you are telling me, Homosexuality is a disease?
How can Homosexuality be a disease?



1. a disordered or incorrectly functioning organ, part, structure,
or system of the body resulting from the effect of genetic
ordevelopmental errors, infection, poisons, nutritional deficiencyor
imbalance, toxicity, or unfavorable environmental factors;illness;
sickness; ailment.

2. any abnormal condition in a plant that interferes with its
vitalphysiological processes, caused by pathogenicmicroorganisms,
parasites, unfavorable environmental,genetic, or nutritional factors, etc.

3. any harmful, depraved, or morbid condition, as of the mind
oversociety: His fascination with executions is a disease.

4. decomposition of a material under special circumstances: tindisease.

–verb (used with object)

5. to affect with disease; make ill.

---- http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/disease

If the dictionary is correct, Homosexuality is not a disease.


the habits, attitudes, tastes, moral standards, economic level,
etc., that together constitute the mode of living of an individual
or group.

---- http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/lifestyle

So homosexuality is not a disease or lifestyle. It’s just who I am.
For me, if homosexuality is a lifestyle, give me week and I will be
straight. I was a vegan for a month and then I smelt a WhiteCastle
hamburger. The vegan lifestyle was gone with one bite.

The world always put Church, God, The bible and Gayness in one pile of
nonsense. Now, I love the bible and I believe the bible is inspired by
Jehovah God himself. He allowed some men to write down his thoughts in a
book called The Bible.

In The Bible, Jesus states the two greatest commands:
1) Love your God with all your heart, even if your God is L. Ron Hubbard
or Luke Skywalker.

2) Love your neighbor as yourself.

So if we love God and love our neighbor, why do we have so many
conflicts in Christian societies? I don’t get it. The cruelest people
who hurt our social structure are in Christian countries. I love God and
I go to church every Sunday. I read the bible to gain more understand of
God’s viewpoint on matters and read examples on how God dealt with a

God is a God of love and understand. Look at King David and his undying
love for Jonathan. In the bible, King David loved Jonathan more then a woman.
King David also committed murder, allowed his daughter to be raped by her
brother and did a lot of wrong doing, but God loved King David. God loved
King David so much that Jesus (God’s Son) was born in King David’s family line.

The point I am making is we as a society needs to stop the hate because it’s
so stupid; protesting for Prop 8, Yes to Marriage and so on and so on.
Why should it matter who I slept and spend my time with? Why do people care?

My feelings is, straight people may have very very boring lives, so they
to hate the gays so they can have meaning in their lives. Too wordy.
In a nutshell, some straight people are bored out of their minds and
need a release from the bore.

On my Face book page, a friend posted a link about the GLBT community
in Uganda. Uganda is so Christian, that if Jesus Christ stays in Uganda
for a while, I bet they will kill him because he is not being Christian
enough. I do believe Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Savior, started
Christianity, right? You know, sometimes I am slow.

Please view the videos. It’s amazing how Christians can treat another.
If Christianity is filled with so much hate, why is God called the God of Love?



Category:Aliya Leigh Videos -- posted at: 8:11pm EDT

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